Sharing memories

Most children enjoy telling others about a special event in their lives. This can be encouraged by inviting them to remember what happened and asking them to describe it for the group. Ask the children to talk about their feelings about the event, as well as the facts, and encourage them to give their own opinions. This will provide opportunities for them to revisit their memories and begin to order their thoughts in relation to the events that have taken place. It is important for the children to be able to share their experiences with others, as reflecting in this way will involve them in retelling, as well as listening and thinking. Provide a range of objects as a springboard for this type of discussion to help any children who are not yet ready for abstract thought.

Suggested resources

Videos or photographs of special events are ideal for triggering memories and sparking discussion; memorabilia such as greeting cards, wrapped gift boxes, programmes and leaflets to encourage the children to discuss special days and visits; birthday charts, calendars and diaries displayed to help the children reflect on the past.

1 Happy birthday

Hold a pretend birthday party to mark the passage of time